So I had planned to shut down this blog but I can’t figure out how to print it all and I don’t want to lose everything which brings me to–I guess I better get writing to justify its existence.
I’ll start by writing about something that brings me great joy–reading. Not mine, but my girls’.
I love to read. My mother loves to read. My grandmother loved to read. I always assumed my daughters would love to read…alas, it did not seem that was going to be the case. Once, my mother even yelled across a family, “didn’t you think you would raise at least ONE reader?” I felt this criticism deeply and was so embarrassed I had not…, particularly as a homeschooler. But alas, Caitlyn only loved to read to learn things, i.e. Pinterest or other websites. Sue loved Graphic Novels and Patrice, well, she saw reading as an extension of school and was not a big fan. I, as a book snob, did not see graphic novels, or even audiobooks, as real reading thus I was left with no readers.
Then, last summer, something changed, Caitlyn decided to volunteer at the local library. She goes every Thursday afternoon for two hours.
I hoped, but thought it was ridiculous to consider, that she would fall in love with reading somehow while she was at the library…AND SHE DID! She discovered there were a lot more books out there than what mommy had chosen over the years.
Now, in my defense, she has chosen some of the genre I used to buy for her but they are a little more grown-up than I chose. But now she reads lots of things. Authors and titles I never would have thoughts. She and her friends give books as gifts and hang out at bookstores! I am still thrilled and in awe. I am sure I make her crazy because I keep commenting on it. I try not to but…I try.
Another thing happened that has helped my perspective–a year or so ago, maybe longer, I discovered audiobooks. I just don’t have all the time to read that I would like but with an audiobook I can run and “read”–it is wonderful. And this past summer, I discovered graphic novels! I thought they were just that, novels–basically comic books, but turns out you can find biographies, history, all sorts of things–I have two on hold at the library right now–which makes me a lot more accepting of what Sue, and sometimes Patrice, like to read.
I guess mom’s can use an education and an attitude adjustment!
Don’t mind me, I’m just over here giddy as I see my kids reading all different genres and formats!
My girls are so beautiful and I am so proud of them. They keep me moving literally, mentally, and emotionally.
This has been going on for weeks, which is not normal for me, and my thinking is starting to get much harder to control, my anger at things is out of proportion, I am over thinking EVERYTHING, so on and so forth.
She is always working on the next thing. And some of those things are hard. Her most recent thing to tackle is playing cards, Spoons to be exact. The girls were introduced to it on Christmas last week. She is doing great hanging in there with the big girls, and the grown ups too!! We played it tonight as a family. We chose to do numbers to make up 2017 instead of the word spoons. Sue was pushed out first, then Caitlyn, next Mommy, so it was just her and daddy left. They both had 201–it was down to just one hand, and daddy got the four of a kind first–he was the winner. We told her she had done a great job, but her little face got bright red as she fought to control her emotions. She escaped to her room just as soon as we stopped talking to her. She went in, gathered her feelings and started quietly playing with a toy until she was ready to come out.
